TV shows and movies promote the thrill of the ‘chase’ in relationships as intoxicating, passionate, and fun. The excitement of pursuing someone new, the uncertainty of whether they’ll reciprocate our feelings — it’s all part of the exhilarating dance of attraction.
Here are three reasons why they do it:
- Entertainment Value: Movies and TV shows are primarily created for entertainment purposes. By emphasizing the thrill of the chase, writers and directors can create engaging storylines that captivate audiences and keep them invested in the characters’ romantic journey.
- Escapism: Many people turn to movies and TV shows as a form of escapism from their everyday lives. The fantasy of an intense and passionate romance allows viewers to momentarily immerse themselves in a world where love conquers all and obstacles are overcome in pursuit of a happy ending.
- Desire for Excitement: The idea of the chase taps into our innate desire for excitement and novelty. It’s thrilling to watch characters embark on a quest for love, navigating obstacles and overcoming challenges along the way. This sense of adventure can be highly appealing to viewers seeking entertainment.
Shut the TV off and stop fantasizing about a romantic pursuit with the grand gestures of love and devotion depicted in movies. When you keep seeking that, you’re living in a fantasy that is not sustainable in the long run. Stop ‘chasing’ the excitement of the next best thing. You’ll never find deeply satisfying love if you’re stuck in this fantasy.
Instead, focus on building genuine connections based on mutual respect, commitment, and authenticity. Real love may not always be as glamorous as in the movies, but it’s far more fulfilling and enduring in the long run.
True fulfillment in love comes from embracing the beauty of everyday moments and nurturing meaningful relationships that stand the test of time.